Newsletter for February 14, 2025

Happy Valentine’s Day!

Did you catch Wednesday’s podcast? It was all about me celebrating 56 Valentine’s Days! Go give it a listen—trust me, I did my homework. I discovered that St. Valentine was actually an advocate for marriage and even went to jail for it! Not the most romantic start to this holiday, right? But here we are, many decades later, celebrating what’s supposed to be a fun and lighthearted day. I think it’s great for little kids, but for the rest of us, it’s a bit of a mixed bag. You either have to scramble to buy a gift or cards for someone special, or it can be a reminder that you don’t have that “special person” in your life, which can feel a little lonely.

I have a new idea, though! Let’s make Valentine’s Day all about love—but not just romantic love. Let’s celebrate love for our neighbors, our communities, our families, our pets, our coworkers, and even our country! I know the 4th of July is already for celebrating America, but if we’re lucky enough to live in the USA, why not celebrate being American twice a year? It’s worth considering, don’t you think?

On a different note—what has Donald Trump done during his time in office? It’s honestly been insane how much he’s delivered on his promises! When has that ever happened in politics, right? But that’s enough of that—let’s keep it light!

I just want to take a moment to remind you that you are loved. God has loved us since we were conceived, even when we forget that truth. I know I’ve been guilty of that. The Blessed Mother and Jesus have always loved us and always will. That’s sometimes hard to fully accept, but it’s absolutely true. Personally, I’ve had my moments where I felt unlovable, alone, or like no one cared—but those were just lies I was telling myself. Since my trip to Medjugorje, my heart has been overflowing with a renewed love for Mary and God. Every morning, I ask them to guide my thoughts and words. The freedom I’ve found in that has been incredible. I trust, with my whole heart, that I’m never alone, and they’re with me every step I take.

Remember, prayers are never unanswered—they just don’t always come in the ways or timing we expect. We need to relax, let go, and let love flow in.

Try imagining yourself in a canoe. You’re sitting at the front, and God is behind you, steering the boat. All you have to do is paddle. It sounds tricky, but it’s a gentle reminder that we’re not in charge—God is. This mental image has helped me so much, and I plan to keep it in my heart for the rest of my life.

So, on this Valentine’s Day, I want you to know that God and Mary love you. You are never alone, no matter what that little voice in your head may try to tell you.

Have an amazing day! And you know what else? I love you, too. 💖

XO,
Bizzy